What is the appropriate way to respond to the question "How much money do you make?" on a date, as advised by a dating coach?

What is the appropriate way to respond to the question "How much money do you make?" on a date, as advised by a dating coach?
What is the appropriate way to respond to the question "How much money do you make?" on a date, as advised by a dating coach?

Many individuals lose their tact when asking inappropriate questions on first dates in their pursuit of the ideal match.

Finances are a crucial aspect of compatibility, and many singles want to know if a potential match shares their spending and saving habits, according to Nashville-based dating coach Kelsey Wonderlin.

Most singles seeking long-term partnerships prioritize their date's salary, according to Wonderlin, who has counseled over 200 individuals.

"Many of my clients, who are often women in finance, express the desire for someone who can match their fast-paced lifestyle," she states.

Dating experts suggest that if you're uncomfortable answering when someone asks about your salary, there are several ways you can respond.

'There's no need to discuss finances when casually dating.'

According to Rachel DeAlto, a dating expert at Plenty of Fish, it is considered impolite to ask about finances on a first date.

If one person enjoys going out to eat three times a week and another prefers to stay home and save money, there might be a lifestyle mismatch that's worth discussing.

DeAlto suggests that your date may be seeking to comprehend your dating expectations in light of the current economic climate.

It's okay to give a vague answer about your salary when you're not comfortable discussing it, especially in the early stages of dating.

"When casually dating, it's not necessary to engage in money conversations, but you can respond without feeling pressured to reveal a pay stub by saying something like 'I make a living wage!' or 'My salary is average, but I'm working on increasing it next year.'"

What is your annual income?

I would say, 'That's a really interesting question. I'm curious why it feels so important to you to discuss now, even though it's not something I'm comfortable sharing at this moment.'

If you're comfortable revealing your salary, it might be a sign that you're on a date with someone who is a pretty good fit.

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