Showing love and support on a wedding gift doesn't have to be expensive, says the founder of Her First 100k.

The expenses of being a bridal party member often occur months before the wedding.

On average, bridesmaids spend over $1,600 on a wedding, including a bachelorette party, bridesmaids dress, and engagement party gift, according to 2024 data from The Knot.

The idea of purchasing a wedding present for the newlyweds, on top of all the other expenses, seems excessive to me, especially if the couple is expecting a gift of the same or similar value to those of guests who were not in the bridal party.

According to Jen Glantz, founder of Bridesmaid for Hire, weddings will always end up costing people more money than they initially anticipated.

She advises against spending a lot on a wedding present and suggests sticking to your budget.

She advises against over-extending oneself when celebrating marriage.

'You don't need to break the bank to show love and support'

Tori Dunlap, founder of Her First 100K and author of the New York Times bestseller "Financial Feminist," suggests that there are ways to demonstrate affection for a couple without spending a lot of money on an expensive gift.

""A thoughtful card, sentimental gift, or simply being there at the wedding can convey your love and support without breaking the bank," she suggests."

Would you like to contribute to purchasing a larger item from the wedding registry?

Discuss your budget with the couple if you feel they might take it personally that you're not spending as much on a gift.

Prioritizing your financial health is crucial, and the couple will appreciate your gesture regardless of the cost, according to Dunlap.

Glantz agrees that the purpose of a present is to celebrate a union, and it is not necessary to be financially reckless to achieve that goal.

"Before the start of your role in a bridal party, it is important to establish a budget and adhere to it, which should encompass all pre-wedding events. This budget should not be influenced by anyone else's opinions."

If newlyweds are reasonable, they'll be just as happy with something less expensive than the $300 Le Creuset Dutch oven on their registry.

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