A therapist advises that going on this many dates each week can increase the chances of a long-term relationship.

A recent eharmony report indicates that nearly half of singles aged 35 and below desire a serious or committed relationship. However, are they willing to invest the time, effort, and money required to find a suitable partner?

One-third of people believe that going on two dates a week is necessary to find a long-term relationship.

Lisa Marie Bobby, a relationship psychologist and founder of Growing Self Counseling & Coaching in Denver, says that rewriting the input sentence into an alternative version might not be enough.

She states that, in her experience, it requires a considerable amount of energy to discover one's true self.

"It's all about the numbers," Bobby remarks.

The number of dates you go on doesn't determine whether you'll find a relationship, but increasing your exposure to potential partners can increase your chances of meeting the right person.

According to Bobby, those who are genuinely committed to discovering their soulmate will need to devote significantly more time to dating than just two days a week.

'Find out who people are before you go on a date with them'

The process of meeting more people can be both enjoyable and disappointing.

"Bobby remarks that dating can be time-consuming, costly, and disappointing as it often involves going on multiple dates with unfamiliar individuals. This can lead to people becoming discouraged and burnt out."

Bobby recommends writing an honest and specific bio to reduce fatigue.

"If you're not effectively filtering out people through your bio, you'll have to converse with many individuals before finding your ideal match," she advises.

Before going on a date, it's a good idea to learn more about the person you're meeting, Bobby advises.

'Similarities are what can build a foundation'

Rachel DeAlto, the chief dating expert at Match.com, advised CNBC Make It to focus on the right factors when it comes to dates.

She argues that while it's commonly believed that opposites attract, it's actually similarities that form a strong foundation.

Successful couples usually have the following values in common, DeAlto says:

• Finances: They agree on how they want to spend their money.
• A shared vision exists among family members for how they intend to establish or care for their family.
• They relish devoting time to the same pursuits, such as travel or working out.

While having good chemistry with someone is beneficial, it's crucial to address deeper issues to ensure a successful relationship.

According to DeAlto, it's possible for an extroverted and funny person to be with someone who is more introverted and quiet because, ultimately, they will likely have similar views on family, money management, and leisure activities.

Discovering a person's values is crucial to determining whether a long-term relationship is viable, but it's not necessary to ask about their family plan within the first half hour of meeting them.

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