Kamala Harris's career was influenced by a lesson she learned from her mother, according to parenting experts who emphasize its importance for success.

Kamala Harris's career was influenced by a lesson she learned from her mother, according to parenting experts who emphasize its importance for success.
Kamala Harris's career was influenced by a lesson she learned from her mother, according to parenting experts who emphasize its importance for success.

Experts suggest that teaching your children to be self-reliant, particularly during disputes, can boost their self-assurance and enhance their chances of achieving success.

What did Kamala Harris say on the Call Her Daddy podcast last week about her mother teaching her to reflect on conflicts and find ways to contribute or solve problems?

"When I returned home with a problem, my mother would always inquire, "What did you do?" According to Harris, who shared this on the podcast with Alex Cooper, she came to understand that her mother was actually imparting a valuable lesson about considering one's agency in those situations and making conscious decisions."

Harris learned that she could usually solve problems on her own and take control of situations, she stated.

Experts agree that trusting children to solve their own problems can increase their confidence, but it's important to strike a balance between holding them accountable and not being overly harsh.

According to author and parenting expert Esther Wojcicki, who wrote for Make It in 2022, when kids are trusted to make their own decisions, they become more engaged, confident, and empowered. This, in turn, leads to unlimited potential for achievement.

Self-confidence is crucial for children's future success, as it can lead to positive outcomes in various areas, including athletics, academics, and relationships.

Another way to foster independence and self-assurance: motivating your children to advocate for their convictions. Harris drew upon her mother's teachings to become a prosecutor. She employed her own voice to assist those who may not have as much autonomy in their lives, she stated in the podcast.

"Harris stated that the main objective of his work was to protect the most vulnerable and restore their right to justice, as they were subject to an imbalance of power."

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