An expert suggests that building relationships is like conducting an audit, saying it's the No. 1 thing highly successful people do.

Building relationships, whether in the workplace or personally, can be challenging, but some people seem to excel at it.

According to life coach Francesca Hogi, highly successful people build relationships by valuing them and working on their communication skills, respecting others' boundaries, and being clear about their own.

Another way successful individuals approach relationships is by conducting a self-awareness audit.

Here's how.

'Maybe I'm good at showing up at a time of crisis'

Identifying patterns in your interactions with others can help you gain self-awareness. Reflect on your strengths and weaknesses in relationships.

"Hogi notes that while some individuals excel at serving as a sounding board, they may struggle with being open and vulnerable, allowing themselves to be seen."

While some people can quickly get close to others, they may push them away when obstacles arise. On the other hand, Hogi admits that he may excel at appearing during crises but may not be as engaged when things are going smoothly.

Examine your behavior in relationships and observe your typical actions.

'What's my version of that?'

Watching the relationships of others can help you better comprehend your own connections with people.

Hogi suggests looking at other people in your life to gain insights, such as whether they are impatient or fully attentive. Reflect on your own behavior and consider how it compares.

Hogi says, "I may not be aware of the role I'm playing because it's so ingrained in my usual behavior."

The purpose of conducting an inventory of your relationships is to enhance them.

Recognizing that building strong relationships involves skills that can be developed is crucial, according to Hogi. However, it is essential to acknowledge that these skills require growth.

Being human is a new experience for all of us.

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